There’s a scene in “Friends” of Rachel finishing a crossword puzzle. You have to feel for her. It’s something she worked on, a goal she had, and when she reached that goal, no one was there.
Writing is a lot like that. Many moments of pivotal victories that mean nothing to anyone but you, the writer. Things like:
- I wrote that crucial conversation!
- I found a way to make my antagonist more believable!
- I wrote a sex scene that doesn’t embarrass me!
- I reached the mid-point!
- I found a title!
- I finally have a good ending!
- I have a compelling first paragraph!
- I finished this #@&*# synopsis!
You find yourself surging with pride, all alone at your desk.
Maybe it’s a good idea to celebrate these milestones anyway. Buy yourself something. Treat yourself to a celebratory drink.
Also, this is why people form and join writing groups. Most people won’t understand the importance of what seems to be a small achievement, but other writers understand. Announce your victory and watch those emojis come flooding in.
